September 10, 2009

 
Hey everyone!
What a difference a month makes!  Less than a month ago (August 12) our family had the best news with the arrival of Caleb Ashton Mendoza-Burks!  He was 6 lbs 8 oz, 21 inches long and has changed our lives for the better since the moment he has arrived.  It feels like this first month has just been one long day with the lack of sleep and the craziness, but every time Adam and I look at him it is SO WORTH IT!  Everyone who has met him keeps trying to figure out who he looks like more, Adam or me.  So far the only thing I think looks like me at all is his scrawny long legs :)  My dad has nicknamed him Sandy Koufax because he has long fingers that my dad says “will make him a great baseball pitcher” — he has even started to work on his hand-eye coordination, gotta love Coach Grandpa!!
My family has been amazing with my mom over almost every day to play with him, teach me something new every day and tell me stories about what I was doing at his age.  It is truly a miracle of life and I am so appreciative of all the moms and dads out there that raise children — so amazing!!
Tomorrow I leave for my first road trip since Caleb was born.  He is staying home, so this means I will be away from him for the first time!!  I am so sad, he is my little buddy and the most I have spent “away” from him is the 3 hours of sleep I get at a time at night.  I am leaving to speak at the “Women and Power” conference at the Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, NY.  It is going to be an all-star lineup with remarkable women such as Natalie Merchant (singer/musician), Gloria Steinem (groundbreaking feminist from the 70’s), Donna Lopiano (former CEO of the Women’s Sports Foundation), Angela Hucles (Olympic soccer star) and many, many more.  I am looking forward to not only being a part of this conference, but to also listening and learning from the amazing women around me.  Just have to figure out how to not miss my son too much :)
Many more exciting trips and stories to come, Caleb takes his first plane ride next month to Washington DC and New York City for the Tween Summit and the Women’s Sport Foundation’s Annual Salute to Women in Sports Dinner, he even got his first tuxedo for the red carpet — too fun!!  If any of you are interested in attending the NY dinner or learning more about it, check out this link: http://www.womenssportsfoundation.org/News-And-Events/Events/Annual-Salute-to-Women-in-Sports.aspx.
I am also trying to get back into shape fast for the USA tryout this January — can’t wait to get back and play again!!
Looking forward to updating you all on the next few months, thank you for all the kind words and congrats — so many amazing parents out there!!!
Love it, Dream it, Live it!!
Jessica Mendoza #2
 

I thought being 9 months pregnant would…

 
Hey everyone!
Well, I thought being 9 months pregnant would slow me down a bit, but I was WAY wrong.  All that happened is I went from flying everywhere (not allowed to fly anymore), to driving everywhere!  So much happening in southern California in the summer months — I would have never known because this is the first summer I have been home (not playing softball) since I was 10 years old!! Yes, that is 18 years of softball summers … all you travel softball players out there know exactly what I am talking about!!  Well I am not going to lie, I miss playing A LOT.  It is something that once you have it in your blood to play, it just never goes away.  Once the weather got hot, all I could think about was putting my glove on and taking the field.  I hope a lot of you that play still feel that way every time you take the field.  In the meantime, I am just getting so excited to meet lil’ Caleb.  His room is all ready to go, freshly painted (non-VOC paint!) with brand new furniture and LOTS of stuffed animals and wall art.  I can not believe it has actually been 9 months — it has all moved so fast, probably because of how busy I have been. 
 
I got to go to the ESPY’s a couple weeks ago and see a lot of friends and other athletes.  It was such a fun night: working the red carpet, laughing at Samuel L. Jackson, dancing with Stevie Wonder, and of course getting all dressed up!  Earlier that day Misty May-Treanor and I spoke at the Gatorade High School Player of the Year luncheon.  It was really neat to sit with these successful high school athletes and talk to them about the road to come … it only gets rockier, but if you are up for the challenge it can be soooo rewarding! 

Then last week I did a photo shoot with teammates Cat Osterman, Natasha Watley and Lauren Lappin for ESPN the magazine’s new “Body Issue”.  I am really excited about this because I feel the “bodies” young girls are looking up to are just unrealistic and make you feel so insecure.  This issue is using male and female athletes of all shapes, races and sizes in such a beautiful way, even with me and my 9 month pregnant body!  Not too many magazines that are trying to show off the body would choose a pregnant body, but that is why I feel confident this issue with all us athletes is going to be different from the norm and good for our youth to see how many successful, different bodies there are out there.  Magazine hits the stands in October!
After that I was off to coach “Team Hollywood” as we played “Team USC” for a charity fundraiser at USC to raise money for Lou Gehrig’s disease.  It was fun to coach all the movie/tv stars and see who could play.  I thought we were going to get spanked by all the USC alumni (including Marcus Allen and Brett Boone) but we were actually winning until the bottom of the 7th when Brett Boone hit a 2 out homer to win the game.  Even for events that are for a good cause and to raise money, I still want to win — so funny!  I also awarded my Sister One shoe for Nike to the lucky contest winner, Aubrene, who Nike flew out just for the event to meet me and win her one-of-a-kind Olympic shoe (with my real jersey sewn into the tongue of the shoe). 
 
Then Adam and I spent the weekend down in San Diego meeting up with friends, seeing my sister in La Jolla, and the cool animals at the San Diego Zoo — my favorites were the Panda bears and the monkeys, I want a pet monkey so bad … they look so cute and fun!  I have a feeling Caleb will be a pretty good version of the “human monkey” when he gets here by the way he is moving around in my belly!

This week I am speaking on a panel at the X-games here in Los Angeles about the future of getting more girls and women involved in sports — excited to see all the competitions!  Then just counting down the days until my due date — only 2 weeks to go now!!  I hope my next blog includes a picture of me and my new lil’ guy Caleb!!
Keep checking in for updates!!
Love it, Dream it, Live it!
Jessica #2 :)
 

June 12, 2009

 

What a crazy few weeks it has been!  The end of May came one of my favorite times of year: college softball post season. I commentated the regionals (ASU), super regionals (Stanford) and the grand event of the Women’s College World Series for ESPN. The WCWS this year was one of the most exciting I have ever seen, with offensive records being broken left and right. There were so many homeruns being hit, including FOUR grand slams (two of which were game-winners) it was no wonder why we also had a record-breaking 1.8 MILLION people tuned into ESPN Tuesday night for the championship. We have come a long way and I love hearing from so many new fans that never watched the sport before and have fallen in love with seeing these women play so well, and with so much passion.

This week has also been event-filled because I was able to meet up with academy award-winning actress Reese Witherspoon (fellow Stanford student) at UCLA for some softball tips for her upcoming movie where she plays a professional softball player who gets cut from the national team. She has never played the sport before, but has been training for a few months now trying to look as authentic as possible. I was so impressed with how hard she was working to do everything right, and how much she respects the world of female athletics. I have no doubt she will represent us well and this movie, which debuts December 2010, will be not only be huge for our sport, but for all female athletes. Her next goal is to come out for one of our Women’s Sports Foundation events — I think we can make that happen :)

After training with Reese, I headed to Louisville, Kentucky to put on a softball clinic with Olympic teammate Taria Flowers. We had over 100 girls attend and had so much fun working drills and also teaching important “life skills” to girls ranging from age 7-23. I also spent some time in the area speaking to a local basketball team and meeting with one of my sponsors, Louisville Slugger — talking about the future support of softball in years to come.

This morning I had breakfast with Olympic gymnast and Dancing with Stars winner, Shawn Johnson. What a whirlwind she has been on, and an exciting one too! She said she had no idea she would be able to do so many great things and meet so many people at only 17 years old. She is definitely living life to the fullest and most importantly, looking for ways to give back. One of her first questions to me was “How do I become President of the Women’s Sports Foundation?”. Gotta love it!!!

Now I am on my way to Lausanne, Switzerland to present on behalf of softball (along with Michele Smith and other international softball athletes) at the International Olympic Committee headquarters to get the sport back into the Olympic games for 2016. From these presentations, the IOC will be choosing 2 of the following 7 sports:
Softball
Rugby
Baseball
Golf
Squash
Roller Sports
Karate

So please keep your fingers crossed the IOC will make the right decision! For more information, please visit www.backsoftball.com.

After I return from Switzerland, just three more events in St. Louis, Cape Cod and Boston and then I am home to “nest” for the baby’s arrival in August!!! What a summer :)

 

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April 16, 2009

 

Hello everyone! There has been so much exciting news since I last wrote!! First of all, I am regularly updating all that I am up to on twitter.com/jessmendoza if you want to follow me and my crazy life! As for what is new, I have started my Presidency with the Women’s Sports Foundation (www.womenssportsfoundation.org) and it has already been very exciting. In February, I met with senators and congressmen to talk about more ways we can get support and information for even more girls and women in sport. It was very successful, as many of those on “the hill” agree that we need to get more young girls opportunities to play sports. Good stuff! I was also able to do a Spin-a-Thon in Venice, CA on March 29 to raise money for the Women’s Sports Foundation. Laila Ali (famous boxer and daughter of Muhammad Ali) was there with me and we rode those bikes as hard as we could, raising money for a good cause!! Laila has just recently had a baby, so I was able to pick her brain about training and being pregnant — how she was able to balance everything and still be ready to get back out there after having her baby. I wanted to know all this because my husband Adam and I are PREGNANT! Yes, six months already and we are SO EXCITED! Baby is due August 13 and I have no doubt this will be the biggest adventure of our lives. But don’t any of you worry, I can not wait to get back out there with USA Softball and the PFX Tour for the 2010 season!

Jessica Mendoza
Jessica Mendoza

I am also very excited watching college softball this year, so many good teams! Check my calendar to see which games I will be covering for both Fox Sports and ESPN from now until June. There is so much to learn from watching these amazing women, who are also great STUDENT-athletes as well.
Thanks for checking in and don’t forget to follow my daily “tweets” on twitter.com/jessmendoza!
Talk to you all soon!!
Love it, Dream it, Live it!!
Jessica Mendoza #2

 

Sister One Nike Shoe

 

To celebrate Jessica Mendoza’s amazing achievements in the 2008 Beijing Olympic Games, Nike has created a one of a kind training shoe inspired by her success.  The truly unique shoe features a piece of fabric from Jessica’s authentic Olympic uniform stitched onto the shoe’s tongue.  Girls everywhere can log-on here: http://www.nike.com/nikeos/p/nikewomen/en_US/sister_one and enter to win their own sized pair of these inspirational shoes by pledging to train as hard as Jessica.  A panel of judges will review each pledge and the most inspirational will win these beautiful shoes and have them presented to her in person by Jessica.
Jessica's Nike Sister Shoe

 

Jessica in Frozen Ropes DVD

 

Check out Jessica Mendoza’s video clip from Frozen Ropes Training Center (below).  To order the DVD and watch the clip, check out this link: http://www.frozenropes.com/home/store/dvds–books.aspx?d=876

 

Jessica in “G” commercial

 

 

Tirrenia, Italy

 

We are now in Italy working with players and coaches from almost all of Europe. There is so much to share and talk about. So far Coach Candrea and I have covered topics such as stance and mechanics of hitting, communication between players and coaches, dynamic warm up and training, practice planning, baserunning and fly ball drop steps. Coach video taped players and even most of the coaches and has had classroom meetings going over their swings. There have been a lot of good questions and we feel we have covered so much in the 8 hours a day we have been on the field or in the classroom.

Our nights have been spent eating some of the best food in the world. And Coach Candrea, being Italian, is in heaven with his pepperoni pizzas every night! Last night they took us to a feast of five courses of food including pastas, mussels, clams, calamari, lobster and a ridiculous amount of dessert! All the Olympic training we did has completely gone away in the few days we have been here! But when in Rome …
We have worked with players and coaches from Belgium, Israel, Argentina, Bolivia, Ukraine, Spain, Italy, UK, Croatia, France, Holland, Ireland and many more. So inspiring to know there are that many people playing this sport. And in just the week or so we have spent here, there has been so much information shared and absorbed. No matter how difficult it can be to communicate off the field with language barriers, it is a beautiful thing to be able to communicate on the field with the game of softball.

All of us enjoyed our time spent in both the UK and Italy and look forward to spreading this great game and growing the international family of softball that much more.
Ciao from myself, Mike Candrea, Ronnie Isham and thank you to ASA, USOC, Baseball Softball UK and FIBS Italia for making this happen!!

 

Cheers from London, England!

 

Coach Candrea and I have just spent the last three days doing clinics throughout the London, England area and it has been an experience of a lifetime. Our first day started off speaking to coaches from all over the world … from Argentina, Bolivia, the Netherlands, Spain, Venezuela, Israel, Belgium, France, and of course the UK. Anyone who thinks softball is not an international sport should have been in this room! We then spent the next three days, from about 9 am to 9 pm every day, talking/presenting to coaches and doing clinics for players ranging from ages 12-30. The attitudes and enthusiasm these young women brought out to the field each day was remarkable and it was so fun to get a glimpse of the softball atmosphere here in England. We shared a lot of laughs because they thought Coach Candrea and my “accents” were really funny and there are a lot of American English words that got sort of “lost in translation” when heard as British English. To be honest, we spent so much time and shared so much with these amazing players and coaches that when it came time to say goodbye, it felt like it had been months we had known and worked with them. It was inspiring for Coach Candrea, Ronnie Isham (Director of national teams) and myself to truly see how vast the softball community is, and how much passion for the growth of this game exists globally. Bob Fromer, Hayley Scott and Mike Jennings were the main people from Baseball Softball UK that not only made this possible, but made it an experience none of us will ever forget.

It will be hard to top the friends and impressions the last few days have made on us in England, but we are now off to Italy to work with many more and I am sure to have a lot more fun stories to share! Cheers from the UK!!